Many a times, i come by "happy anniversary hubby", "love u darling laugong", "me miss my boyfriend"....etc but i have NEVER seen any that says "happy anniversary dearest wife" or "i miss my gal"... Why huh? Why oh why??? Are they taking gals' love for granted? Why can't they show some appreciation to the gals, while we gals always have to indulge in expressing our love and feelings for those guys? Or do they not love us? Or is it too "guniang"for them to express their feelings for the loved ones?
Why do i write this? Well, i worry lor... worry that we gals step too deeply in the relationship and would lose our "barganing power" if we love them more than they love us, if we cherish them more than they do. A self-called wisey once said "If u love me, i will love u ten times more. If u fail me, i'm afraid i will fail u ten times too." Is this a love threat? Is this healthy? But at least it is not love-blindly.
Easy easy... just some thoughts after reading the book called "The Reader". It is quite lousy, but i finished it anyway haha... (dun want to waste my money without reading it).
aiyo why liddat? btw who typed this eh?
ReplyDeletehaha. who is the writer of this post?? da jie?? haha but cannot be leh, korkor always call her honey, darling, etc. hahaha. and who is lim?? haha. don't mix up identity with me eh. haha.
ReplyDeleteso far i don't face such problem leh. HAHA. but actually i don't really like to say such things too. love you darling laugong makes my hair stand. haha. and i really tend to hold back in relationships, quite protective of myself la, won't really give in more than the other half already.
i don't put the words by my mouth doesn't mean i don't love wad, i just feel weird and fake to keep hanging it by the mouth. but i say them only when i really feel like it, thats what makes it special. (: to me, i think love don't have to be always have to be said out one la,(i think actions speak louder than words) esp girls can feel it one.. if really cannot feel then too bad liow lo.
jiajia.
me la me la...
ReplyDeleteyours truly,
dajie
lim = marc lim?
ReplyDeleteor mrs marc lim?
ReplyDeletehaha!!
curiosity kills the cat,
dajie
lim = marc lim.....bloody gmail is not saving my settings to marc hah
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