My Virgin Post.. hehe

Here I come... after Princess Jia's personal coaching yesterday, this is my first tutorial homework on "Creating a Post", haha!!

This afternoon, I called Ergu and she confirmed that her "thyroid cyst" is NOT cancerous. Hurray! Cheers!! It's much of a blessing in disguise, as i think everyone will learn to cherish & love everyone more.

Now, some after thoughts on what we have discussed yesterday in the car, between me, Jia, Lu and Kor while on the way from Hanabi to erjie house. At some point, Jia mentioned abt me being too concerned over you all. Hmm.. ya after some thought, perhaps overly protective over you guys ba. Some instances quoted: i was too worried abt you people driving when you first gotten the driving licences (i might not have said to anyone but on some occassions, i really could not sleep when i first knew you guys drove out for fun in the wee hours of the night), too worried abt your independence trip to taiwan, dorin's overseas study trip and many more... i realised i have stepped into the privacy of everyone i care for. I took a step behind and put myself in your shoes, i saw the LIGHT...... i saw myself sometimes feeling irritated by my mother-in-law's over zealous concern but at the same time paiseh to say so.. HAHAHA!! I am enlightened! I completely understand how you all feel haha... so, i would like to dedicate the song [SORRY] from William So to all of you: Sorry, I'm really SORRY my dear cousins, i have been too concerned, and if i had irritated you in any ways, pls do not take it to heart. I promise i will try my best not to overstep the private spaces that each and every one deserves, should let you grow up in your own ways, afterall, you guys have already grown up already...

Similarly, i feel apologetic towards Bryan for all these years of strict upbringing too. Sigh, i have been too stern, watching too closely on his behaviour, restricting his play..etc. He had mentioned several times, how Xiaogu loves Marcus, why Marcus can buy so many toys, why Marcus can play everyday while he cannot... etc. I am sorry. But i really meant him well, really want him to grow up to be a responsible, independent, sensitive and hardworking man who knows when to work hard, when to play. Haiz... I think i should let go of my "clutches"... and have trust in him that he would grow well on his own.

Here's a toast to all... my love ones! May our family love reigns. Cheers!

DaJie